There's a whole lot of everything in this thread, some of it good, some of it very bad. Honestly, I don't want to get into a lot of it because it will just result in going back and forth essentially beating my head against the wall.
A couple things I would like to suggest, though, to the individuals who are so hellbent that there is little no systemic racial bias or discrimination in this country:
--Listen when Black people talk about their experiences and not automatically come back with objections and whatabouts.
Think about it like this. No one on this board could tell Coach K what it's like to be a Division I head basketball coach. If you're a white person, why would you think yourself qualified to tell a Black person that their accounts of what it's like to be Black in America is wrong?
--Understand that wanting the playing field even is not the same as wanting a handout, as I've seen at least a couple people mention on here.
Look at the United States like the 100 yard dash, which effectively began a little over 500 years ago. Focus on racial equality and civil rights really kicked in a little over 50 years. How fast does one have to be to catch up and get to the finish line at the same time or in front when the other guy starts at the 90 yard mark? Trying to assist the guy who, through no fault of his own, is starting a 10 second sprint 9 seconds later than his opponent is a hell of a lot more fair than just telling him, "you know where the finish line is, get there."
--Don't get tricked into allowing racial equity to become a political issue. You can still be a conservative and believe that some people in America get treated worse than others based on the color of their skin. Just because you yourself may not outwardly discriminate against someone doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Just because your white and don't have an obvious position and opportunity to oppress people of other races doesn't mean there aren't people who have that power and who use that power.
--Again, just listen. Calls for equality are very likely not about you as an individual white person. It is about systems in this country that exist and that make it more difficult for some to succeed than others.
If you see someone crying out in pain, most people are going to ask that person, "what can I do?" Very few will tell that individual, "You're not really hurt, it's all in your mind."