Going even further as a society there are certainly racists in this country but the idea that America is a systemically racist country is ludricous to me.
Ehhh... while I would need to discuss the idea of a "systematically racist country" a lot more to figure out what that would even mean, there is an awful lot of evidence of race playing a big role in a LOT of our systems.
There is plenty of evidence of race playing a inappropriate part in our financial system.
There is plenty of evidence of race playing a inappropriate part in our educational system.
There is plenty of evidence of race playing a inappropriate part in our justice system.
There is plenty of of evidence of race playing a inappropriate part in our housing system.
There is plenty of evidence of race playing an inappropriate part in our employment system.
So while it would take a LOT of work to convince me that ANY country is a "systemically racist country," I think it is pretty obvious that race has played an outsized role in the establishment in most systems in our country, and continues to play a larger role than any of us would want.
Me as well. I think people with this mindset are truly uneducated about racism and how rampant it runs outside of the United States.
Been spending a lot of time overseas, have you?
This mofo won't even come visit New Jersey!
So here is the thing.
There is racism everywhere. EVERYWHERE. Italians... yikes. Northern Italians think Southern Italians are practically another race, and they ALL hate Africans. Go to India, and you'll see how different the country is for a lighter skinned person of a certain caste compared to a dark skinned person. Travel to MANY countries in central America, and those people who are more obviously ethnically Native American often face a discrimination that others do not. Spend some time in Paris, and you SEE the tension between native, white Frenchmen and the African and Muslim immigrants. The Jews literally had to flee places like Russia and establish their own nation to keep from getting killed.
Racism is everywhere, it is somewhat natural, and it will never disappear.
Having said that, our country has three unique things that play an important part in any conversation you have about race.
First is that we have, fairly or not, a higher expectation for the United States. We like to think that we are more enlightened, more fair, more educated, more democratic... that we are the best, and a big part of that is how equal everyone is. And because of that, when we see ugly, ignorant racism it is rather jarring.
Second... every conversation you have about racism is probably with an American. Obviously you'll hear more about American racism when you discuss racism with Americans. That doesn't mean these sorts of discussions aren't held elsewhere, and it also means that most of the people you discuss it with see it from only an American point of view. That plays a big part in why you have the impression that Americans think we are the only country with race problems.
And finally... like it or not, the US has a VERY unique place in the history of the world and racism. We are the only nation to have this formalized, legalized system of large scale slavery in such recent history. We followed that up with a century of legally-established, codified racism in massive swathes of our nation, racism that impacted everything from what education a black person could receive to what loans they could get to what job they could get to where they were allowed to buy a house... and all of this WITHIN THE LIFETIME of Americans alive today. So not only has all of that had a massive impact on the lives of people alive today, but many of those people are STILL ALIVE today, along with all of their experiences and history. This is almost unique in world history.
So yeah... I have no idea what a "racist country" is, but the fact that discussions you have with Americans about race in America seem different than discussions you might have about racism in Japan or England... well, yeah, for a bunch of different reasons.