Murdering puppies is a sociopath - that's an awfully high bar if that's what you think it takes for someone to be mentally unstable. Grayson needs some serious time away from the court, he's got some significant issues well beyond a typical 20 y/o's.Okay, stop now. The kid isn't "mentally unstable." Anyone saying that has no idea what mentally unstable looks like. He is being an immature idiot. The blow up on the bench was just a typical immature angry outburst. But he isn't murdering puppies or anything.
I don't necessarily agree with K's post game comments..
Apologizing and acknowledging you made a mistake isn't all that required here IMO...
Allen should be disciplined here..not from the ACC but from Coach..JMO
Doesn't sound like K will do anything more as far as suspension.
I'd be careful making judgments there... We don't know what K actually saw, or if he saw a replay, or what. I think it is worth giving Coach the benefit of the doubt a bit, no?
K post game sounded like a paterno press conference his last 5 years, and that's not goodI completely agree 100%. To me, K sounded like nothing will be done as far as suspension and he didn't really care what anyone thought about that (which is fine - whatever). I feel like Grayson running stairs or sprints or getting chewed out whatever else is just absolutely not enough.
If K doesn't do something publicly (like a suspension), it makes it look like he - at best - isn't all that bothered by Grayson's actions and - at worst - condones this behavior. Grayson will probably face some kind of reprimand from the ACC, but it needs to come from K and if it doesn't (which seems likely), then I'm very disappointed with how K handles this pattern of behavior.
Having said all that, I can't imagine K playing Allen in the 2nd half and then suspending him a game afterwards...
That looks like a 9 year old having to truly apologize for the first time. Pathetic, grow up be a manHeartfelt apology. Woulda rather he held his head up and looked 'em in the eye but that's just me....
Ok, she reads this board. Her article references exactly what I said above.Correct but there's about 5,000 otherD1 bball players not having this issue. It's not because duke is under a microscope, it's because Grayson has an issue. I got no clue what it is or how to fix it, but it's clear he has one.
K post game sounded like a paterno press conference his last 5 years, and that's not good
Man, this brought a lot of random shit talkers out. Some serious stupid being shown in this thread.
He is really immature. He is what... 21 years old? Once in a while immature, emotional, under-pressure 21 year olds do dumb crap. Sometimes it is even SUPER dumb crap. Usually they aren't on national tv when they do it. He hasn't learned to get himself under control yet; he has a lot of years to work on that, thankfully for him. The huge anger afterwards (anger is just another form of sadness) was clearly at himself. I am sure Grayson doesn't want to be this way, and I am sure he is more disappointed than any of us.
I also believe Coach should suspend him for a game, but K has known Grayson for years and years. I have literally never spoken to him. However K decides to handle it, I hope it is the way that helps Grayson the most, and I will have to trust that it will be, since we will likely not be privy to most of the results of this.
I am at the point where I feel bad for Grayson. It is clearly something he doesn't have control of, and that is a terrible feeling. It is clearly something that has embarrassed him and everyone around him, and that is a terrible feeling. And he is experiencing all of this under intense public scrutiny that I doubt any 21 year old can really handle... And that makes the whole thing so much more difficult. As someone who had to work through an absolutely ferocious temper as an athlete, and who has experienced how difficult that can be and how you can fall prey to it over and over, even when you know better and even when you've worked to correct it, to grow up, I hope he gets the support and help he needs to work through this, not for our sakes, but for his own.
You know Grayson is waking up in just a shitty, dark, sad place today. I hope he can start taking steps back from it.
I'm not pretending to know what was or wasn't said to him during the half - Just that I don't think K should have allowed him to play in the second.
What needs to happen is , refs suspend him after a technical, just like throwing a punch. If he knew this, that would end this problem. Temper tantrums on the sideline are not impressive either.He needs some help for sure but he needs to be held accountable. Game suspensions is a must. Chewing him out, running the stairs is just not gonna get it. Feeling bad about it is not gonna get it. Apologizing is not gonna get it. He needs to be in a dress suit with a tie own and watch. OFC
Thanks Hoke, I appreciate it.I did add a little edit at the end… Feel free to remove the like if it goes against it![]()
What needs to happen is , refs suspend him after a technical, just like throwing a punch. If he knew this, that would end this problem. Temper tantrums on the sideline are not impressive either.
You have no clue what you're talking about. I'm not referencing what happened with Sandusky. I'm talking about paterno being old, defensive, and naive as a coach his last 5-7 years. At post game remarks and press conferences he would stubbornly defend his team , his actions, and the program when you could tell it wasn't working, kids were constantly getting in trouble and the bar he set wasn't being met by him or his players. The fact you took it straight to the illegal activities is terrible.There is no reason these two or their situations need to be compared or even in the same sentence. And sure a reporter said the same thing. That's super sensationalistic and will grab some internet clicks no doubt when the headline screams "Coach K and Joe Paterno ____."
Grayson tripping people and acting like a moron and then K letting him play and Joe Paterno allowing a disgusting, ILLEGAL activity to occur are nowhere the same and it diminishes what happened to those boys when statements like this are made. No place for it.
This with an additional one game suspension vs vtech. 90% of the BS would be over with.Time for K to make a statement and if he would have left him in the lock room after the half and called punishment the basketball would be singing his praises last night and it would be a closed case!
Agree with your post but, you speak of feroscious temper, you me Grayson and many many others on the board and sports have temper issues with sports. You want to punch the opposition, coaches, fans, even your own teammates. But guess what, you don't.Man, this brought a lot of random shit talkers out. Some serious stupid being shown in this thread.
He is really immature. He is what... 21 years old? Once in a while immature, emotional, under-pressure 21 year olds do dumb crap. Sometimes it is even SUPER dumb crap. Usually they aren't on national tv when they do it. He hasn't learned to get himself under control yet; he has a lot of years to work on that, thankfully for him. The huge anger afterwards (anger is just another form of sadness) was clearly at himself. I am sure Grayson doesn't want to be this way, and I am sure he is more disappointed than any of us.
I also believe Coach should suspend him for a game or so, because discipline (and visible discipline) matters, but K has known Grayson for years and years. I have literally never spoken to him. However K decides to handle it, I hope it is the way that helps Grayson the most, and I will have to trust that it will be, since we will likely not be privy to most of the results of this.
I am at the point where I feel bad for Grayson. It is clearly something he doesn't have control of, and that is a terrible feeling. It is clearly something that has embarrassed him and everyone around him, and that is a terrible feeling. And he is experiencing all of this under intense public scrutiny that I doubt any 21 year old can really handle... And that makes the whole thing so much more difficult. As someone who had to work through an absolutely ferocious temper as an athlete, and who has experienced how difficult that can be and how you can fall prey to it over and over, even when you know better and even when you've worked to correct it, to grow up, I hope he gets the support and help he needs to work through this, not for our sakes, but for his own.
You know Grayson is waking up in just a shitty, dark, sad place today. I hope he can start taking steps back from it.
Edit: I should add... I don't approve of Grayson's dicky edge on the court. I've never had that, as a person or as an athlete, and I simply can't understand it. A number of athletes have that, and I've never gotten it. Most of them, thankfully, are mature enough that it doesn't come out like this... But most of them are also older.
They showed it 5 times on the big screen, officials didn't call it but reviewed it and gave the T and told k what happened. k knew right away.I wonder if K saw a replay of the incident prior to the post game news conference.